Sunday, November 14, 2010

Finally Sharing the News

Friends and Family,

I have some news I would like to share with you. We had been waiting to get more specifics before we could share with everyone.

A few weeks ago, we found out that my father-in-law, Neil, has Esophageal Cancer. He had been having trouble swallowing food ever since his hospital stay in 2007 with Pneumonia. It was expected that there was scar tissue from the tube he had in his throat while in an induced coma for 18 days. In the past months this problem had been getting worse. He went in for a procedure to have his esophagus stretched, and they ended up finding the cancer.

At first we were told they caught it early, and so we had a very positive outlook.

Unfortunately, as they performed further scans, tests and evaluations, we received the news that he is actually in Stage 4.

Esophageal Cancer is very slow-growing, no one knows how long he may have been developing it. Because of the slow speed of growth he has not experienced any symptoms other than what he thought was caused by his previous hospital stay. We are lucky that he even went in to have this procedure, or we still wouldn't know.

The cancer has gone through all the layers of his esophagus and is affecting at least 12 lymph nodes. There are no surgical options at this point.

We have known about Stage 4 for a couple of weeks but we waited to share the news until we heard what his treatment plan would be. They were still unsure of his severity and if it has reached Stage 4B they would not have even treated him, just made him comfortable.

Thank God we have found out he is Stage 4A and they WILL be treating him. This coming Tuesday he will be beginning Radiation and Chemotherapy treatments.

His first round of treatments will last for 5 weeks. He will have Chemo and Radiation this Tuesday. He will have Radiation every weekday at the same time for 5 weeks straight. There will be a 2nd round of Chemotherapy during the 5th week.

After this initial 5 week course of treatment they will reevaluate and decide what to do next.

With this type of cancer, they haven given him a 15-20% chance of survival. If the treatments do not get the cancer under control, they are saying he would have around 9-14 months to live. Even if he beats this with treatment, they say to expect about a 5 year life span. We are hoping for better of course and we want him to beat the odds, but the family is preparing ourselves in case the worst does happen.

We are grateful we at least have time to prepare, spend time together, and possibly say goodbye. When he had his Pneumonia 3 years ago, it was a sudden shock and there would have been no time for any of this. We are choosing to be grateful for the time we will have in this case. We are preparing for the worst, but hoping for the very best.

Thank you in advance for your sweet comments, your thoughts and your prayers. Right now nothing needs to be done. Within the family we are taking care of anything that is needed such as transportation to treatments, food, and anything else that is needed. We know you are all out there and we will definitely ask if we need any help. The best thing you can do is pray that everything goes as well as it possibly can. Thanks everybody.







18 comments:

  1. I am so unbelievably sorry to hear this. I am sending love, light and healing thoughts your way.

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  2. I'm so sorry to hear this news :( I have my fingers crossed and wishing good thoughts, I hope we hear good news soon.

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  3. I'm sorry to hear this. But, I hope to hear good news soon!

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  4. Your family is in my thoughts....so sorry to hear this. Robin

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  5. Christie, that is wonderful that he is getting a chance at treatment. I will continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers as you all go through this together. BTW, even though I do not know your FIL, the pictures made me smile, so thank you for sharing them. :-)

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  6. Sad sad news. Sorry to hear this Christie Sending good thoughts your way. xoxo

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  7. I am so sorry to hear about your father-in-law. I will be thinking of you guys and praying for you all as you go through this together.

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  8. I have no words Christie, just lots and lots of hugs and well wishes for you, Ian and the family. You guys are in my thoughts.

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  9. Oh Christie, I'm so sad to hear this. I've only been reading your blog for a couple of months, but I know the hurt your family is going thru. I lost my dad very suddenly to a disease that is poorly understood and has no treatment. Please cherish the time you have. Those are such sweet pics of Ian and his dad, especially that first one. He reminds me of my dad, lol. Take care, and give each other all the love you have to give.

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  10. Christie,
    I will be praying for your family. Your post is a beautiful tribute to your faith and your hope. I know that you all will treasure each and every day you have together whether that is a short time or a very long time. Your love for him is so evident. May God richly bless all of you.

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  11. Christie, I'm sorry to read this news. He looks like a wonderful man. I am praying for the best. Positive thoughts are always helpful. Make sure he eats right and keeps his strength up...it'll be a big help during those treatments.

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  12. Oh Christie, no wonder you've been quiet lately. I am so sorry to hear this news. I will remember him in my prayers....

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  13. Thoughts and prayers to all of your family.

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  14. I'm so sorry to hear this. I will keep your father in law and all of you in your prayers! :)

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  15. I'm so sorry to hear about this! I was imagining a totally different reason why you were so sparse on your blogs. Sending postive thoughts your way.

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  16. Sending positive thoughts. My prayers go out to him and your family as he goes through his treatments. May the Lord bless him and help him through this tough time. May God be with you!

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  17. Christie, so sorry to hear this. You are right to consider this time a gift, and to use it wisely. We will keep you all in our prayers and thoughts throughout this time. Keep smiling, keep loving, and you never know, miracles can happen. Every sunrise is a miracle. Hugs.

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  18. I pray that your family finds strength and healing during this tough time. My Dad had tongue cancer and had a similar treatment plan...it was tough but your father-in-law will find strength in the support you all give him. My prayers are with you!

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